Guides
Read first, compare after.
Every guide lays its ideas out in the open. When you'd rather not negotiate, each one also leads to a list you both answer in private, so you only see what you agree on.
Dates and evenings
- 52 date night ideas, and a way to pick without the back-and-forth52 date night ideas for staying in, going out, getting away and trying something new, plus a private way to find the ones you both actually want.
- Date night movies by mood, and a way to stop scrollingDate night movies sorted by mood, from funny to scary to the long beautiful one, plus a private way to find out what you'd both actually watch.
- 42 date night dinner ideas, at home and outDate night dinner ideas for cooking at home and eating out, from homemade pasta to a midnight diner, plus a private way to find what you both want.
- 30 cheap date ideas that don't feel cheap30 date ideas that cost little or nothing, at home and out, plus a private way to find the ones you both want.
- 25 long-distance date ideasDate ideas for long-distance couples, from watching together to planning the next visit, plus lists you can each answer on your own time.
Trips and things to do
- 44 vacation ideas for couples, and how to find the ones you both wantWeekend getaways, week-long trips and bucket-list travel for couples, plus a private way to find the trips you both actually want.
- 44 activities and hobbies for couplesActivities, sports and hobbies for couples: outdoors, sports to play, fitness, games to watch and hobbies to share, plus a private way to find the ones you'd both do.
Talking and comparing
- 50 questions for couples, from light to honest50 questions for couples in five groups, from easy conversation starters to the things worth saying out loud. With a way to compare what you both want.
- A couples quiz that shows where you agree, and nothing elseA free couples quiz for two phones. You answer the same questions separately and only see where you agree. No score, no account.
For adults
- The yes / no / maybe list, done so nobody has to go firstWhat a yes/no/maybe list is, how to use one without an awkward conversation, and a free online version that only shows what you both said yes or maybe to.
- A kink test for two, where only the overlap is shownA free kink test for two. You each answer alone and only see what you both said yes or maybe to. No percentages, no labels, no account.
- A kink list for couples, from mild to boldA plain-language list of things couples try in bed, sorted into three levels, with a private way to find out which ones you'd both like.