A list for two
Date Night
What you'd both actually like to do, from tonight to someday.
About this list
What's on it
Date Night is a yes/no/maybe list of 52 lines for two, in 6 groups:
- Staying in, for example: cook a three-course dinner together, with a playlist and no phones.
- Going out, for example: get dressed up and go somewhere a little too fancy.
- Getting away, for example: a weekend away, booked by one of you and kept secret from the other.
- Something new, for example: take a dance class together.
- Small rituals, for example: a standing date night, the same evening every week.
- Someday, for example: live somewhere else for a few months.
How it's compared
You answer every line alone with yes, maybe or no and send your partner a private link. They answer the same list without seeing your answers. Then you both see the lines where neither of you said no, and nothing else.
Good to know
- Free, with no account and nothing to install.
- Answers are encrypted with a secret that only exists in your link and deleted after 30 days.
- Prefer to read first? The guides have every list in the open, from 52 date night ideas to 50 questions for couples.