A list for two · adults only
After Dark
What you'd both like in bed, including the things nobody has said out loud yet.
About this list
What's on it
After Dark is a yes/no/maybe list for adult couples. It has 10 themes and three levels, so you decide how far it goes before either of you sees a line:
- Warm, 24 lines. Kissing, touch, massage, first wishes. Nothing that startles anyone.
- Hot, 74 lines. Adds mouths, toys, taking the lead, other rooms. It gets specific.
- Everything, 109 lines. Adds restraints, spanking, anal play and the fantasies people rarely mention.
How it's compared
You answer every line alone with yes, maybe or no and send your partner a private link. They answer the same list without seeing your answers. Then you both see the lines where neither of you said no, and nothing else. Giving and receiving are asked separately and matched against each other.
Good to know
- Free, with no account and nothing to install.
- Answers are encrypted with a secret that only exists in your link and deleted after 30 days.
- More background: the yes/no/maybe list explained, the kink test for couples, and the full list from mild to bold.